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@doctorramani

Mental Health Influencers

📚 NYT Bestselling Author “It’s Not You” ❤️‍🩹 Join The Dr. Ramani Network and my Healing Program by clicking below ⬇️

868.3KFollowers
438Following
886Posts
0.5%Engagement Estimated

Creator summary

Dr. Ramani is a New York Times bestselling author and mental health creator focused on helping audiences understand abusive and narcissistic relationship dynamics, trauma bonding, and healing.

Mental health educator and bestselling author

Content formats

Video
95.8%
Image
4.2%

Based on 24 posts

Niche & topics

Mental Health Influencers

Narcissistic Abuse RecoveryAbusive relationshipsTrauma bondingRelationship healingPersonal testimony
Abusive marriageTrauma bondingNarcissistic relationshipsPersonal testimonyRelationship abuse

Known for

  • The book “It’s Not You”
  • Explaining narcissistic relationships and trauma bonding
  • Discussing abusive marriage and relationship abuse
  • The Dr. Ramani Network and Healing Program
  • Featuring or referencing figures including Denise Richards, Tamsen Fadal, and Lauren Makk

Profile details

Account typeCreator
VisibilityPublic
CountryUnited States
JoinedDecember 2012
Links https://doctor-ramani.com/connect-with-me/
http://drramaninetwork.com
http://drramaninetwork.com/landing/gaslighting101

Content style

Educational videoPersonal storytellingRelationship focused commentaryProgram and network promotion

Contact & business

Public emaildrramani@doctor-ramani.com
Contact methodCALL

Content Intent

Education
45.8%
Personal story
33.3%
Promotion
16.7%
Opinion
4.2%

Frequently Mentioned

Dr. Ramani Network Media platform 18 posts
Dr. Ramani Person 12 posts
Denise Richards Person 4 posts
Tamsen Fadal Person 4 posts
Lauren Makk Person 4 posts
Dr. Ruth Person 3 posts
Healing by the Numbers Brand 3 posts
Dr. Ramani Durvasula Person 2 posts

Community Reaction

These insights are based on a sample of publicly visible comments and may not represent the creator's complete audience.

Across 89 sampled comments from three recent posts, reactions were nearly evenly divided between positive (49.5%) and negative (40.5%), with smaller mixed (5.6%) and neutral (4.4%) responses. Dominant emotions included support, sadness, and admiration. Sampled comments commonly discussed abuse, healing, relationships, manipulation, safety, recovery, and personal experiences, alongside praise, discussion, personal reactions, questions, and content requests. The creator liked 38 of 90 eligible top-level comments; reply data was incomplete, with one observed creator reply. Because this was a recent, non-representative sample, it may not reflect broader community sentiment.

  • Support and admiration for abuse-awareness and recovery storytelling
  • Sadness and personal reactions related to trauma, survival, and relationship abuse
  • Discussion of manipulation, safety, domestic and narcissistic abuse, and healing
  • Some negative or disbelieving reactions concerning topics such as financial exploitation, green cards, and suicide threats
Positive
Dominant Sentiment
89
Comments Analysed
3
Posts Sampled

Sentiment

Mixed
5.6%
Negative
40.5%
Neutral
4.4%
Positive
49.5%
Unclear
0%

Dominant Emotions

SupportSadnessAdmiration

Common Intents

DiscussionPraisePersonal reactionQuestionContent request

Recurring Topics

AbuseHealingStorytellingRelationshipsNarcissistic abuseDomestic abuseSafetySoulmates

Creator Interaction

Likely to interact42.2%
Like rate42.2%
Reply threads observed1

Engagement Metrics

0.48%
Median Engagement
2.2
Posts / Week
Video
Dominant Format

Engagement Detail

Average likes6.1K
Median likes4.0K
Average comments226.17
Median comments96.5
Sample size24 posts

Recent Posts (24)

doctorramani Instagram post about Abusive relationship dynamics
Abusive relationship dynamics
Video
Likes: 2.1K Comments: 81 Plays: 70.5K
@deniserichards thought she had found her soulmate.  Dr. Ramani reveals what may really be hiding beneath that seemingly magical connection.
doctorramani Instagram post about Abusive marriage
Abusive marriage
Video
Likes: 3.3K Comments: 108 Plays: 99.6K
@deniserichards shares when her marriage began to take a troubling turn. Watch the full conversation only on the Dr. Ramani Network. Exclus
doctorramani Instagram post about Domestic violence
Domestic violence
Video
Likes: 3.9K Comments: 149 Plays: 114.2K
@deniserichards shares the terrifying threats she says she received from her estranged husband and why leaving felt more dangerous than stay
doctorramani Instagram post about Abusive marriage
Abusive marriage
Video
Likes: 9.4K Comments: 527 Plays: 383.3K
Actress and mother @deniserichards joins Dr. Ramani for an unfiltered sit-down, revealing how the marriage that once made her feel protected
doctorramani Instagram post about Personal boundaries
Personal boundaries
Video
Likes: 1.8K Comments: 78 Plays: 66.2K
When it’s all about him…🚩⚠️ This week me and my homie @doctorramani break down why this one moment reveals more about him than months of se
doctorramani Instagram post about Narcissism
Narcissism
Video
Likes: 17.5K Comments: 592 Plays: 481.4K
Not every narcissist looks like the stereotypical narcissist… @doctorramani joined @thetamsenshow to reveal the less obvious sides of narci
doctorramani Instagram post about Trauma bonding
Trauma bonding
Video
Likes: 1.1K Comments: 37 Plays: 46.3K
The internet is full of false ideas about trauma bonds. Here are a few major misconceptions. Join The Dr. Ramani Network for a enlightening
doctorramani Instagram post about Narcissistic relationships
Narcissistic relationships
Video
Likes: 14.8K Comments: 422 Plays: 491.3K
¿Alguien ha estado o está con un narcisista? La Dra. Ramani Durvasula, (@doctorramani) psicóloga clínica experta en narcisismo y autora del
doctorramani Instagram post about Forensic psychological evaluations
Forensic psychological evaluations
Video
Likes: 1.5K Comments: 57 Plays: 52.8K
A psychological evaluation can be weaponized against your client even when they have nothing to hide and can jeopardize everything. Forensi
doctorramani Instagram post about Narcissistic relationships
Narcissistic relationships
Video
Likes: 6.5K Comments: 252 Plays: 149.3K
What @laurenmakk discovered in her own bed was shocking. But the betrayal was only the beginning.  What followed reveals a painful truth ab
doctorramani Instagram post about Sexual coercion and control
Sexual coercion and control
Video
Likes: 11.3K Comments: 554 Plays: 283.7K
What happens when intimacy becomes another way to control you? Special guest @laurenmakk and Dr. Ramani expose the painful dynamic that lea
doctorramani Instagram post about Sexual abuse in relationships
Sexual abuse in relationships
Video
Likes: 22.8K Comments: 1.3K Plays: 542.5K
Sex can take on a very different meaning in a narcissistic relationship and the consequences may stay with you long after the relationship e
doctorramani Instagram post about Manipulation in relationships
Manipulation in relationships
Video
Likes: 6.4K Comments: 317 Plays: 174.0K
What feels magical at first may be a warning of something far darker. Watch as celebrity interior designer @laurenmakk reveals how, like so
doctorramani Instagram post about Abusive relationship cycles
Abusive relationship cycles
Video
Likes: 2.3K Comments: 72 Plays: 79.6K
No matter what you do... it is never enough. Dr. Ramani and @tamsenfadal reveal why survivors fall into a cycle, slowly draining your ident
doctorramani Instagram post about Trauma bonding
Trauma bonding
Video
Likes: 2.1K Comments: 43 Plays: 77.0K
Dr. Ramani and @tamsenfadal unpack one of the biggest differences between a healthy relationship and a trauma bond. And it’s probably not wh
doctorramani Instagram post about Secrecy in relationships
Secrecy in relationships
Video
Likes: 1.6K Comments: 62 Plays: 72.1K
When someone keeps significant parts of their life hidden, it’s easy to start asking yourself: “What’s wrong with me?” Dr. Ramani and @tams
doctorramani Instagram post about Relationship red flags
Relationship red flags
Video
Likes: 3.1K Comments: 136 Plays: 83.6K
What are the red flags?🚩 I’ve been asked this question so many times, and every time, it angers me more and more. On this episode of the
doctorramani Instagram post about Sexual abuse in marriage
Sexual abuse in marriage
Video
Likes: 8.2K Comments: 151 Plays: 252.0K
What happened when Dr. Ruth’s abusive husband became more demanding in the bedroom? And why her message belongs in the “Understanding Abuse
doctorramani Instagram post about Live psychology events
Live psychology events
Image
Likes: 299 Comments: 28
Millions have watched her videos. Millions have had their eyes opened. Now, Dr. Ramani Durvasula is stepping off the screen and onto stages
doctorramani Instagram post about Early abuse warning signs
Early abuse warning signs
Video
Likes: 4.2K Comments: 85 Plays: 164.2K
💬 Have you ever looked back and realized the first red flag was much earlier than you thought? Dr. Ruth shares the moment she now wishes sh
doctorramani Instagram post about Surviving an abusive marriage
Surviving an abusive marriage
Video
Likes: 5.0K Comments: 84 Plays: 160.2K
One of my favorite conversations we’ve ever had and truly a must-listen. Dr. Ruth shares her powerful story of escaping an abusive marriage
doctorramani Instagram post about Gaslighting
Gaslighting
Video
Likes: 5.5K Comments: 137 Plays: 128.4K
Do you know the difference between lying and gaslighting? It may not be what you think… The impact of gaslighting is devastating. It’s one
doctorramani Instagram post about Gaslighting education
Gaslighting education
Video
Likes: 1.0K Comments: 29 Plays: 56.3K
🚨 NEW COURSE ALERT: GASLIGHTING 101 🚨 The impact of gaslighting is devastating. Gaslighting is one of the most damaging forms of psychologi
doctorramani Instagram post about No contact with family
No contact with family
Video
Likes: 10.2K Comments: 85 Plays: 271.2K
@doctorramani on going no-contact with family. Watch or listen to this brand new conversation today by searching ‘Jay Shetty Podcast’ on you

Analysis based on 24 available posts.
Last snapshot taken: August 29, 2026